Category Archives: Life & Wonk

On Pen Names and Cuddle Sluttery

A Guest Post by Tamsen Parker I used to be a hugger. I used to be a snuggle bunny. I used to be a cuddle slut. I went to an all-girls boarding school and we would link arms when we … Continue reading

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Writing Reality

Recently, Team Wonkomance had an email thread going about condoms. It began with a comment about edits requested from a publishing house regarding the hero’s condom habits, and it ran on for quite a while, through humor, outrage, sympathy, and … Continue reading

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Let’s talk about Sexplanations

Welcome back from the winter holiday! Today’s post will be short-ish, because I only have one goal here: to heartily recommend the work of Dr. Lindsey Doe, host of Sexplanations. If you’re already a fan, you’ll know why there’s so … Continue reading

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