Category Archives: Thinky

GRL: maybe a very good place to start?

I spent the last five or so days at two conventions in Chicago: GayRomLit, and the Kinky Kollege Homecoming. Both were fun, and I had an awesome time meeting new people and reconnecting with friends, not to mention getting to … Continue reading

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Orienting Myself: Love and Lust and Liking

I have had the great good fortune to participate in Queer Romance Month, with a post about writing queer romance and parenting. I often learn something about myself when writing blog posts, but with QRM I’ve had the privilege of learning … Continue reading

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When Heroes Fall

It’s been a rough couple of weeks. Scratch that. It’s been a rough couple of decades. My heroes, writers whose work I have loved with a passion, who I have admired and promoted and hoped to emulate some day, have … Continue reading

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